Friday, July 17, 2015


Boys doing watercolors on the deck. I think it's so interesting how different their painting style is. Theo is very careful and delicate with his brushstrokes and color choices, and Beck saturates an area with color.

This is our first three-boys-in-a-tub!


Thursday, July 16, 2015

Hippo rides

Hippo rides, or tiger rides as they are sometimes called, happen spontaneously in the Lovebo household, usually when the grumpy-grumps have erupted and need some physical outlet. It involves riding on mama's back as the tiger or hippo gets up, lopes around looking for water or food, and the boys try to stay on my back. The best part, of course, is getting thrown off the hippo, which is why we do hippo rides only in the upstairs playroom where there are lots of pillows on the floor along the walls.






Monday, July 13, 2015

Fun times with Grandma Kathy




and Grandpa Stu.



On the way to Grandma Kathy's and Grandpa Greg's.



Eating smoothies


Friday, July 10, 2015

James' birthday party

The boys were invited to their friend James' birthday party at his grandfather's house in Chittenango. James had lots of great outdoor toys, including many he got that day, but the highlight was this kid-sized tractor! Thankfully the tractor was exciting enough for the boys to pull themselves off of mama's legs to enjoy the party.


Thursday, July 9, 2015

Holiday weekend festivities

Friday, AKA Daddy's Birthday, the boys and I traveled to Seneca Lake State Park to meet a college friend of mine for a play date. The spray park was pretty busy and my boys both fell and skidded on the wet cement within five minutes of getting there, so we mostly stayed at the playground, which is supremely awesome. My boys would have played there all day. It has lots of playground structures that we've never seen anywhere else, unlike the cookie cutter playgrounds that have all the same features. Susana and her daughter Cati and son Memo were not super-impressed with the water park but did enjoy cookies and goldfish crackers with us after.




When we got home, we had friends Pete and Becky and their kids Robbie and Ella over for dinner and cake. The birthday boy had to light his own candles because I had Baby Reed strapped to me and it just seemed like a bad idea to do it while bending over with him.









Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Developmental Update

Theo and Beckett are having more and more interesting observations of and reactions to the world. Monday and Tuesday this week they attended Vacation Bible Camp at their nursery school. We had heard from friends that their kids (not Catholics) had enjoyed it a lot last year, and the activities sounded somewhat fun. Each day they cried and screamed and had to be pried from my arms in the morning (Theo on day 1, Beckett on day 2), and then at the end of the morning at pickup reported having had fun, then within ten minutes said they did not like it and did not want to go back. It turns out the camp was WAY more churchy than their nursery school at the same school, and Beckett came back saying things like "God will provide" and "God will comfort" and relaying stories like "The mean king told Elijah he had to leave, so Elijah went up to the mountain and didn't have any food but an angel came and brought him bread." Theo, meanwhile, gazes out the window the whole way home, then looks at me and says, "Is God real? Or is he just pretend?" Wow, that's a good one, Theo. Ask your father.

It's so fun to return to the playgrounds we went to last summer, because everywhere there are activities they couldn't do or steps they couldn't reach that now they can. I am not even sure they remember that they couldn't do them; they just try now, and can do them. We've been swimming twice at the city pools so far, just at the Burnet Park pool near the zoo, and they are thrilled they can use their puddlejumpers (like water wings but with a floatie across the chest and belt across the back so they're US Coast Guard approved). They love being independent and swimming all over the pool by themselves (with me close by). Theo is a more natural swimmer and can propel himself very well all over, with a great kick and effective pulls. Beckett doesn't try as hard and wants more "butt pushes" to catch him up to Theo. I even got a chance to go to our pool in our park last night but got kicked out after only about 10 minutes due to a vomit incident in the pool. 

There's also lots of imaginative play, and acting out stories they especially enjoy. An example: we have inherited a hand-me-down Cinderella nightgown that gets a lot of use. The boys also have Batman pajamas that look rather regal with a gold belt and accessories painted on the shirt. Their favorite Disney-fied story is Cinderella, so one wears the gown and the other wears the Batman jammies, and they act out the last part of the story, where the Prince (Batman) and Cinderella dance at the ball, then Cinderella realizes it is midnight, the clock strikes twelve, and she runs away from the castle with Batman in hot pursuit. They act out pieces of other stories they read, and use exact quotes from many of their books.

Reed has been smiling big smiles for about three weeks now. He smiles with his whole body--his mouth gets wide, his eyes get squinty, the corners of his mouth crinkle up to his cheeks, his torso squirms and his arms and legs get going in all directions. It's such a joy! He still only giggles in his sleep but has many alert periods during the day when he's very interested in engaging me and other people in smiles. Also lots of cooing--all the "ah-goo"s of this stage are so amazing, it really seems like he is communicating with us. He LOVES watching his brothers and at this moment has been in his chair for about thirty minutes watching them build a train track and now move the trains all over the set. Beckett has so far shown more interest in making Reed smile, and more excitement over his small milestones. But yesterday at nap I had Reed tuck in the boys (I clasped their blankets with his hands and brought the blankets over their bodies) and had Reed "dance" along while I sang songs, and then Reed gave them sloppy wet kisses before we left. It's so fun to think about the relationship all three of them will have as they get older!

Reed's been sleeping 6+ hours every night now for about two weeks. He usually falls asleep around 9pm and sleeps through til between 4 and 6am. Then he nurses and goes back to sleep in his bed (a rock and play) til between 6 and 7. This morning he slept in bed with us from about 6:30 until almost 8am. I can tell you that my big boys did not sleep six hours at a time until they were more than a year old, so this is absolutely delightful. Reed usually naps in the afternoon around the same time as the big boys, so we can all get a nap in around 2 or 3pm, but Reed usually won't nap in his bed during the day so (oh darn) I have to lay down next to him and sleep (or read) too.


Thursday, July 2, 2015

Belated birthday pictures

I found these on the camera today. They are from around the time of the boys' birthday, May 21. This is the small party we had for them when just Grandma Kathy was here on the night of their actual birthday. I made two cakes, one pink with a front loader(for Theo) and one chocolate with a tractor (for Beckett), based on their very specific requests. As you can see, Beckett is pretty excited about his cake. Theo is less impressed. He was disappointed that his cake did not have his precisely specified big rig. Reed did not participate in the festivities.