What we've been up to

It was very cold for about two weeks there, so we were mostly stuck inside. Last Monday we went to the Great Northern Mall and the soft foam structure play area in the middle of the food court. Not many families there, and mostly younger kids, so the boys had lots of room to run in circles and leap all over everything. They got into a game with another little boy who was three and a half, where Theo stood watch behind a kind of counter (made of foam) and when Beckett and this other little boy climbed over the counter, Theo pushed them back over. It was all completely harmless, as the counter and floor were made of soft foam, and the counter was about 18 inches off the ground, but as the game wore on it was clear that Theo was the alpha--always the one standing guard, never the one being pushed off. Beckett and this other little boy would roll to the floor and then roll around laughing, then get up and slowly, theatrically, climb back up, grinning while waiting for Theo to push them back down. I was amazed, with this other little boy's dad, that the older boy never thought to go around the structure and come back through behind Theo. Finally he did, but Theo saw it coming and ran out so the boy couldn't get him. Beckett had a ten-minute period when he was mesmerized with a little blond girl a little older than them. He followed her around doing everything she did, just a few steps behind, and then would approach her and say something apparently meaningful right in her face. It's very fun to see them experimenting with relationships with other kids.

We took a trip to the MOST, the science museum here in Syracuse, Friday afternoon when we were one of two families I saw in the museum. The boys had a great time in the big climbing structure. This time they switched roles, with Theo acting afraid of the big whooshing air machine that pushes all the balls up, and Beckett was cavalier and kept pressing the button to make the noise and make the balls go in the air. Last time we were there it was Beck insisting that Theo not press the button anymore. The biggest hit of the MOST this time was the floor of airplane and helicopter simulators. The helicopter one has two seats and a whole bunch of levers and throttles and push pedals on the floor, and great crashing noises when you crash the simulator, so the boys can spend about 10 minutes just on that machine.

Potty training continues to go really well. The boys are in pants all the time now, and diapers only nighttime (both boys) and nap time (only Theo). I still remind them to go potty sometimes, like 20 minutes after they finish eating, but mostly they realize on their own that they need to go, go over to their little potties, take off their pants, pee, and bring them back up. Most of the time they don't even ask for chocolate (M&Ms have been the reward around here for potty usage--1 for pee, 2 for poop) but want to flush their product. They often prefer to use the toilet but only if they are very secure in the climbing up mechanism, which we can't accommodate well in the downstairs bathroom because of how small it is and how many doors there are to navigate into it. Theo's been doing great pooping on the potty, though he usually saves his big blowouts for diapers (right before nap is a favorite time, as is first thing upon waking up). Beck's been doing it for at least a month. I'm super-impressed that they are this far along at two and a half, and it's great to see them so proud of themselves.

We've continued to have some struggles both with nap and with keeping the boys down at nighttime, but we're experimenting with early naps (12/12:30) and it seems to be successful so far. We can get them down at naps more easily with promises of a fun, active adventure after their naps, which is actually possible when they wake up by 2:30. They also don't have time to ratchet up again after lunch, which I think was part of the problem. Plus they are more tired at nighttime when they have gotten up from naps earlier and had the chance to be active again before dinner. We're also separating them (one in a pack and play in the guest room, one in his bed in their bedroom) for almost every nap and bedtime that Jeff and I do, and that seems to eliminate a lot of the revving each other up and goofing off. We don't have the magic solution yet but this week is better than last, which is all we can really hope for.